Trauma
Trauma can be defined as a frightening, sudden, unbalancing
and violent act which destroys core beliefs and values. From the Greek
word for 'wound', it is a term used for both physical and psychological
injuries, the key point in both cases, is that it is an injury that
is violent and overwhelming. In
a narrower sense, trauma refers to extreme stress which may or may
not develop into a pattern of symptoms which can be classified as post
traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
The degree of trauma that someone may experience is impacted by their
relationship to the event or person, their religious/spiritual beliefs
and other circumstances, such as their age and perceived control over
the event (usually very little). Everone responds differently in, during
and after a traumatic situation. Some feel the brunt of the experience
immediately whereas others appear to be remaining numb to the experience. People
who are friends or co-workers of those directly affected can also be
affected by what is known as secondary trauma.
It is important for people who are affected to share what they think
and feel as a critical window of opportunity exists. Debriefing
and discussing the events within 72 hours of an incident
can help insure that people recover and don't end up with PTSD. Both
children and adults need to be shown that their feelings are accepted
and understood; no matter how overwhelming they may appear.
Many people have a tendency to rise to the occasion during a crisis
and after a traumatic episode they will attempt to help others. This
can be a tremendous help, but it can also serve as a means to deny
their own personal trauma and pain. Those who experience the
greatest trauma, and are busy helping everyone else, may end up becoming
the greatest casualty of all.
What events can cause trauma?
- An accident
- Terrorist acts
- War
- Rape
- A loved one gone missing
- Natural disasters e.g. tsunamis
- Kidnapping
- The suicide of a loved one
- Sexual abuse
- Miscarriage/abortion/stillbirth
- Anything that can cause disenfranchised grief (where grief is not
allowed to be recognised/expressed)
- A life threatening disease
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What are the differences between normal grief & trauma?
Grief |
Trauma |
- Yearning & reminiscing
- Grief dreams
- Distress with thoughts of loss
- Shock, disbelief, numbness
- Sadness
- Diminished pleasure
- Anger, irritability
- Impaired concentration
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- Intrusive distressing memories
- Traumatic dreams
- Intense distress with thoughts, symbols and reminders of
the event
- Inability to recall aspects of the event
- Detachment/estrangement from others Avoidance of thoughts & feelings
- Anger, irritability, guilt (especially survivor guilt)
- Hypervigilance
- Exaggerated startle response
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How do I deal with trauma?
- Recognise that you have been through a highly
stressful experience and that it will affect you psychologically
and physically.
- Talk about your feelings to others who have had
a similar experience or are trained professionals. Don't bottle up
your feelings but try to express them.
- Following a trauma, you are more vulnerable to
accidents and physical illness. It is important to look after yourself
and be more careful than usual.
- Get plenty of rest , even if you can't sleep and
eat regular and well-balanced meals.
- Take regular exercise as this is good for reducing
the physical effects of stress and trauma.
- Reduce your use of stimulants such as tea, coffee,
chocolate, cola and cigarettes. Your body is already "hyped
up" and these substances only increase your level of arousal.
- Do not try to numb the pain with drugs or alcohol;
this will lead to more problems.
- Take up meditation , yoga or breathing exercises.
- Accept that recurring thoughts, dreams and flashbacks are
normal and that they will decrease in time.
- Some people find that keeping a journal or diary
is very helpful, especially if you have difficulty in talking to
other people about the event.
- Don't make any major life decision s in the period
following the trauma, but do make as many smaller, daily decisions
as possible. This will help to re-establish a feeling of control over
your life, which is very important.
- Don't be afraid to ask for help , whether it is
practical e.g. legal advice or psychological.
Everyone has their own time frame for recovery from a traumatic event
and it is important to recognise this. However, professional help,
even after the first 72 hours can assist the survivor to incorporate
the event into their existing belief systems, which may have been severely
shaken, as well as offering planning strategies to manage and reduce
symptom intensity.
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