Panic & Anxiety (part 2)
Learn to change Unhelpful thinking styles In the previous article we saw how physical factors such as low levels
of fitness and poor health can make symptoms of stress and anxiety, worse.
We also looked at various techniques to help deal with panic attacks
or extreme anxiety and now will examine the negative thinking styles
or thoughts that can make you more vulnerable to these problems.
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Identifying Negative Thinking
How we interpret experiences and situations will influence how we feel
about them and hence our emotional responses. For example, if you think
you are going to have a panic attack in a crowded shopping centre, you
may find yourself very nervous and anticipating the attack, every time
you go shopping. By predicting anxiety, you increase the risk of a panic
attack happening. Then once the attack happens, it strengthens the belief
that you will always have a panic attack in that situation and that it
is inevitable. Thus you have given yourself a negative message!
Another unhelpful aspect of these interpretations is that they are over-generalisations.
For example, after having a panic attack on a train, you may assume that
you will have similar attacks on all forms of public transport, thus
creating a vicious cycle of avoidance of all situations that you predict
will lead to anxiety but never testing them out to see if they are false.
Before too long, you may become locked into a restricted and fearful
life.
Here are some examples of negative thinking styles:
- Black & white thinking - all or nothing, whereby an
event is either a success or a failure with no graduations
in between.
- Generalising - as explained above, where if one situation
is a problem it is generalised to all similar situations.
- Focusing on negatives and exaggerating - by magnifying
the unpleasant part of an experience and ignoring the positive
aspects.
- Setting unrealistic expectations - and not allowing yourself
to make mistakes, for example, after practicing the techniques,
I will be cured of panic attacks in a week.
- Taking responsibility for others feelings - e.g. 'it is
my fault that my partner was so upset, because I am so anxious.'
- Trying to mind read other people's thought - assuming certain
outcomes without checking facts, such as an assumption that people
think you are stupid because you have panic attacks.
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Challenging Negative Thoughts:
Having identified your negative thinking styles, the next step is to
change those to more appropriate and positive ones. There are three ways
of challenging your negative thoughts:
- Question the evidence for the negative thought. What evidence do
you have that a panic attack will be the result if you travel on
all means of public transport. Recall the times you did not have
an attack or only minor symptoms.
- Check out other possibilities before jumping to a conclusion. For
example, if you feel sensations such as dizziness or weakness, are
there other factors which may have influenced those feelings, other
than anxiety? Where you overheated, did you stand up too quickly,
or maybe have a viral illness?
- Ask others for their interpretation of a situation. This can be
very useful if you have friend or family member that you can trust
to provide an accurate account of the situation. They may help you
to see it from a different perspective.
To practice challenging negative thoughts, it is often helpful to keep
a record of them for a period of time, as shown below.
List Your Negative thoughts in various stressful situations;
Situation |
Negative Thought |
Challenging Thought |
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Changing Negative Thoughts to Positive Thoughts:
The next stage is to substitute more positive thoughts for the unhelpful
negative ones. Taking your situations from the last example, substitute
a positive thought for the negative one listed. At first this may seem
difficult but will become easier with practice. It is often helpful to
have someone else help you with ideas, at this stage.
Situation |
Positive Thought |
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Further Ways to help Change Negative Thoughts:
- Cue cards - small cards you can easily carry that each have a
single positive thought on them. Read them when required.
- Imagine you are someone you know who always looks on the bright
side - how would they handle the situation differently.
Next; examining ways
of dealing with the physical
sensations of anxiety and panic.
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